Mimoso's Care Guide 📋
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Mimoso
Mimoso's Care Guide 📋
For trusted caregivers only
Please read this guide fully before caring for Mimoso. When in doubt, contact Sam first.
About Mimoso

Mimoso is a tricolor Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, born January 23, 2026. Cavaliers are a gentle, affectionate, and sensitive breed — they thrive on calm, consistent care and close human companionship. Mimoso is still very much a puppy and his physical and emotional development are ongoing, which is why the rules in this guide exist and matter.

Mimoso is a real sweetie — and with that comes neediness in the best way. He'll be happiest curled up on your lap while you work, and if he's playing, he loves having you watch. He's a gentle soul who responds beautifully to positive reinforcement. This breed is emotionally sensitive, so please be kind, patient, and calm with him. He picks up on your energy.

Please read this guide fully before caring for him. When in doubt, contact Sam first.

A Note on Calm & Confidence

Mimoso thrives with calm, caring people in safe environments. The best thing you can do for him while Sam is away is to be steady, patient, and relaxed in how you handle him.

If he encounters something new or something that makes him nervous, don't coddle him — encourage him to interact with it and work through it. We want a confident, curious dog, not a nervous or neurotic one. Your calm reassurance is the best tool you have.

There are no punishments for Mimoso — only redirection and ignoring of unwanted behaviors. Keep everything positive.

The goal: Keep him safe, keep him loved, and keep the energy around him steady. He will always do best with a calm, confident person by his side.

Don't stress about perfection. Mimoso is a puppy in an unfamiliar routine. Do your best and reach out to Sam whenever you need to.

The Non-Negotiables
🚫 Hard Rules — No Exceptions
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Never cut his hair — anywhere The breed standard for Cavaliers is a completely natural, uncut coat. No trimming, no tidying, no "just a little off the paws." If it looks long or messy, that's correct. Leave it.
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Never cut his weewee tassel The little tuft of hair at the end of his penis directs the flow of urine so it doesn't run down his legs. It may look untidy but it is doing its job. It takes a very long time to grow back. Leave it completely alone.
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Leash attaches to harness only — never his collar His collar holds his ID tag, a bell, and his AirTag. The bell is there so you can hear him coming — he's small and quiet and easy to accidentally step on. Always attach any leash to his harness, never his collar. His collar comes off at bedtime so the bell doesn't disturb his sleep, and goes back on whenever he heads outside so his AirTag is on him.
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No stairs and no jumping off furniture — ever Mimoso does not do stairs while he's still developing, and should never jump off beds, couches, or any elevated surface. Both put serious strain on his developing joints and spine. Redirect him from stairs and remind him: "no stairs for babies." Always help him down gently from furniture — never let him launch himself off.
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He has zero self-preservation skills This is not an exaggeration. Never leave him unattended on a bed, couch, or any elevated surface — not even for a moment. He will walk right off the edge. Additionally, if he hasn't peed recently, keep him off soft furniture to avoid accidents on upholstery.
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Never scold him — for anything There are no punishments for Mimoso. Not for accidents, not for chewing, not for barking. The only tools are calm redirection and ignoring unwanted behavior. Scolding will confuse and upset him without teaching him anything. If you catch him mid-accident, a quiet "outside" and getting him out the door is all that's needed.
Quick Reference

At a glance essentials — tap any card to jump to the full details for that section.

Feeding

Mimoso is on Purina Pro Plan Puppy. He gets approximately ¾ cup per day — check the bag for the current serving size as this may be adjusted as he grows.

Enrichment Feeding

Meals are an opportunity for enrichment and mental stimulation. Deliver his daily portion using any combination of:

  • His puzzle feeder
  • His snuffle mat
  • Scattered on the floor like he's a chicken
  • Reserved as training treats throughout the day
Daily Supplement

Every morning, give him one NaturVet Bladder Support Plus Cranberry soft chew. This supports his urinary health, especially when his routine is disrupted — like when Sam is away.

High Value Treats

For practicing recall (come) or other important commands, use his Kong with cheese whiz on his lick mat, or a small squeeze directly as a reward. Reserve this for meaningful moments — it's powerful and should stay that way.

Water

Mimoso drinks filtered water only to help prevent staining around his mouth. Sam will send him with water. He has a specialty spaniel bowl that keeps his floppy ears dry while he drinks — please use this.

🚫 No people food — ever. Mimoso is being raised as a lifelong lap dog, which means he sits on Sam's lap during meals. For this to work, he must never associate human food with something he can have. Please do not give him anything from your plate, even as a one-time thing.
Potty Routine & Reading His Signals

Mimoso goes out every 2–3 hours during the day. During or after play or pen time, take him out every 30 minutes — he's still too young to interrupt himself and think about it. If he's getting really rowdy in his pen, that's normally a sign he's close to a pee accident — get him outside promptly.

Always take him out before and after every nap.

His Poop Schedule

Mimoso reliably poops first thing in the morning and before bed. He may also have a bowel movement during the day, but that's not guaranteed — 1–3 times a day is normal.

Where to Go

Take him to the driveway or grass. Avoid long grass and brush — ticks are drawn to him. If you think he may have wandered into long grass, comb him thoroughly and check for ticks when you get back inside. If one has attached, use the tick remover provided — and yell at it for daring to touch the baby.

The Routine Outside
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Let him sniff for a minute or two — sniffing helps activate his need to go, especially for poop
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Cue him with "go potty" or "do your business"
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Mill about slowly in more or less the same area — if he's overstimulated or distracted, he'll lose focus on the task
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He should pee within about 5 minutes. He squats, so just watch to confirm he's gone
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Log every pee and poop in his potty tracker: samgrise.com/mimoso-potty-tracker — bookmark it to your home screen like an app
Reading Poop Signals

Mimoso doesn't always know he needs to poop yet. Watch for:

  • Butt pucker — this means he's close
  • Poo dance — tail wagging, walking back and forth, followed by a little squat

If he seems due for a poop, give him 5–10 minutes. If he sits down or tries to go back inside, you can safely assume he's done for now.

Praise & Rewards

Praise him verbally immediately after he pees or poops — not on the walk back. Treats are welcome but not required.

If he's not going: If he sits down or asks to go back inside, don't push it. Bring him in, keep a close eye, and try again soon.
Leash & Yard

Potty breaks are always on leash unless you have a securely fenced yard. Mimoso is used to leash potty breaks so it won't feel restrictive to him — it's just his normal. A fenced yard, if you have one, is great for play time.

Coming Back Inside

If you're able, ask him to sit before unclipping his leash when you come back in. He's working on this and it's a lovely habit to reinforce. If he's not cooperating or it feels like a battle, don't stress — just bring him in and Sam will keep reinforcing it at home.

What to Do in the Rain & Cold

Mimoso is an indoor dog through and through. As Sam's wonderful best friend Paulina once perfectly put it — Cavaliers are sports cars, not off-road vehicles. He can be particular about the elements, so a little preparation goes a long way.

Rain
  • In a light rain he'll generally be fine and won't mind much
  • If it's pouring, hold an umbrella over him — this can make a real difference in keeping him outside long enough to do his business
  • He has a raincoat but doesn't love wearing it, so the umbrella is usually the better move
Cold (50°F and below)
  • Mimoso gets cold and will shiver — put his little teddy bear coat on before heading out
  • If he comes back inside shivering, he appreciates a cuddle with a person and a blanket to warm up — this is a genuine need, not just a preference
Play & Exercise

Mimoso is a puppy in active development, so keeping him calm and controlled during play is important for his growing joints and overall temperament.

The Basics
  • Keep play to 5–10 minute bursts followed by rest
  • The default should be calm — a settled lap dog in training, not a wild puppy
  • He loves having you watch him play, so your attention is part of the fun
His Favorite Things
  • His gummy/rubber textured toys are great for chewing — he's teething, so redirect him to these if he starts chewing on you, your clothes, zippers, or buttons (all things he finds irresistible)
  • His little shark rubber toy is a favorite
  • We're working on fetch — he's not great at it yet but feel free to practice
  • Gentle tug of war is okay — just don't get too rough
Barking

If he gets barky, please ignore him completely. He sometimes demand barks and it's important that it never works for him. He's made great progress on this — don't undo it by responding. No eye contact, no talking to him, no reaction.

Nap Routine

Mimoso naps a lot — and that's completely normal and healthy. At his age he should be sleeping 16–18 hours a day. He plays for roughly 30 minutes spread across the whole day. Everything else is rest.

Crate naps are also important for building his confidence alone and reducing separation anxiety. Please don't feel guilty using his nap time to get things done or take a break — it's genuinely good for him.

His Nap Schedule

He should have at least two crate naps a day:

  • First crate nap around 11am
  • Second crate nap in the afternoon or early evening

All other naps can happen on your lap whenever he's ready. Always take him out to pee before and after every nap.

How to Settle Him for a Crate Nap
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Give him a little cuddle first
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Place him in his crate with the cover down — it breaks his sight lines and helps him settle
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Position his cuddle puppy at the front so he can use it as a pillow — there's a Velcro opening on his tummy to access the heartbeat device. Press the button once to activate it
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Sit with him for a moment until he rests his head down
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White noise, music, or TV in the background can help him settle and mask the sound of you moving around
Lap Naps

If he's wiggly and restless on your lap, don't give up — gentle petting and a little patience usually wins. He will settle and fall asleep.

Waking Up in the Morning

Mimoso can be slow to wake up — don't worry if he's not immediately ready to leap out of bed. He often likes to stretch first, and he loves a facilitated stretch: gently hold his front feet and give a slow, soft pull so he can get a deeper stretch in. He won't come out of his crate on his own, so just reach in, pick him up gently, and take him straight outside to potty.

Crate Placement

Keep his crate in your bedroom, especially at night. He likes knowing you're nearby.

Before putting him to bed, take his collar off — the bell on it will disturb his sleep. Put it back on first thing in the morning, and always before heading outside so his AirTag is on him.

If He Gets Fussy
  • Acting crazy and overstimulated → he probably needs a nap
  • Fussing after initially settling → he may need to go potty first. Take him out, then try again
  • Naps are typically 1–2 hours. If he's been having accidents, preempting him by shortening the time between potty breaks is actually the right move — don't wait for him to wake on his own if you're concerned
How to Hold Him

Mimoso should be held like a little lamb — supported under his chest with his bottom cupped in your other hand.

Asking First — "Uppies?"

If you'd like to pick him up, you can ask him first. Lower your arms toward him and say "uppies?" — if he wants to be picked up, he'll put his little arms up toward yours. It's his way of saying yes. You can still pick him up even if he doesn't respond, but offering him the choice is a lovely way to give him a little control and build trust.

Picking Him Up

Never grab him from under his armpits. Instead:

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Slide one hand under his belly
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Simultaneously cup his bottom with your other hand
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Lift gently and bring him to your chest
How to Carry Him
  • Support his butt and hold him under his chest — think lamb, not baby
  • Never let his weight pull on his neck or front legs
  • Avoid any pressure on his trachea (throat)
⚕️ Why this matters: Cavaliers are prone to syringomyelia, a serious neurological condition affecting the spine and skull. We can't prevent it entirely, but we avoid handling that puts unnecessary pressure on his neck, throat, or spine. This is breed-specific care that matters.
He Will Tell You If Something Hurts

Mimoso is sensitive — he is not stoic and will let you know if something is wrong, even if it's minor. If his tail or a leg gets in a funny position he may cry, but he'll usually feel better once you fix it. Don't panic — just help him. If something persists, call Sam.

How to Help Him Settle

When Mimoso needs to wind down but isn't ready for a crate nap, two tools work really well for transitioning him to calm independent time — in his pen or on your lap.

Lick Mat with Kong Cheese Whiz

Use a spatula to work the cheese whiz into his lick mat. This usually keeps him happily occupied for about 5 minutes and is a great way to help him transition to entertaining himself in his pen without fuss.

Bully Stick

His bully sticks go into his Woof tool — this prevents him from swallowing small pieces as it gets chewed down. To get him interested, start by holding it for him in his pen. Once he's into it, he'll settle and work on it independently. Also great for lap time.

Both of these are great tools if you need a moment, need to transition him to his pen, or just want a settled lap dog instead of a wiggly one.
Crating
🏠 The crate is Mimoso's safe space and den — it is never used as punishment. There are no punishments for Mimoso, only redirection and ignoring of unwanted behaviors.
Crate Setup
  • His crate has a divider to keep his den space small — this reduces accidents
  • He has a cozy nest-style bed inside. If it gets soiled, wash it and return it. Sam will send a spare in case you don't have time
  • Cover the crate to break his sight lines
  • Place his cuddle puppy at the front — open the Velcro on the tummy and press the button once to activate the heartbeat
When to Crate
  • For all scheduled naps (at least two per day)
  • At bedtime
  • When you need a break — please use this without guilt, it's good for him
  • If you need to leave the house briefly
How Long is Too Long

He can go 1–2 hours without an accident. If you're out longer, be prepared to clean up when you return. No guilt — it's puppy life.

If He Fusses
  • Some initial fussing is normal — use the heartbeat cuddle puppy, white noise, and sit with him briefly
  • If he really won't settle, try his lick mat or bully stick to help him transition
  • If he starts crying or chewing on the crate after sleeping — that means he needs to go potty. Get him outside promptly
Taking Him Out With You

Mimoso can come along. He has a console car seat he loves. If he needs to be in the car alone briefly, use his hard shell carrier.

  • Never leave him in a car alone for long — temperature safety and because Cavaliers are unfortunately a highly desirable and stealable breed
  • Never leave him unattended and unsecured in public — do not tie him outside a store
Accidents & Mess Cleanup

Accidents will happen — especially when Mimoso is out of his normal routine and away from Sam. Please do not stress about this. It is a normal part of puppyhood. Clean it up and move on without making a fuss around him.

🚫 Never scold Mimoso for an accident. He can't connect a scolding to something he did moments ago — it will only confuse and upset him. Clean it up calmly. If you catch him mid-accident, a calm "outside" and getting him out the door is all that's needed.
Cleaning Hard Floors & Surfaces

Sam will provide Nature's Miracle:

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Spray generously over the soiled area
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Let it sit for a few minutes
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Wipe dry — let the product do the work, don't scrub
Cleaning His Bed or Fabric Items
  • Spray Nature's Miracle as a pretreatment
  • Wash with regular detergent
  • Tumble dry on low

His cuddle puppy can be treated the same way.

If He Gets Pee on Himself

Wipe him down with his baby wipes. A full bath is a last resort — if necessary, use warm water only, then towel swaddle him and keep him warm until completely dry.

Daily Coat & Paw Care

Sam has a full bedtime beauty ritual with Mimoso, but for caregivers the goal is simple: keep it positive, do what you can, and don't stress if he's not cooperating. These rituals are about building good associations for his future as a long-coated dog — not perfection.

Combing (Before Bed)

Give him a gentle comb before bed if you're able. Pay special attention to his ears and behind his ears — this is where he'll be prone to matting as his coat grows in. If he's not having it, don't push it. A negative experience is worse than a skipped brushing.

Paw Balm (Before Bed)

Rub his paws with his paw balm before bed if you can. Again — only if it's a pleasant experience for both of you.

Toothpaste (Before Bed)

This one he'll actually love. Squeeze a pea-sized amount of the enzymatic toothpaste Sam provides onto his toothbrush and let him chew on it for a bit. No actual brushing required — just let him go to town on it.

Eye Wiping (Throughout the Day)

Cavaliers are prone to watery eyes and Mimoso is a goopy little boy. Wipe gently under his eyes throughout the day with a tissue or soft cloth to keep the area dry — this helps prevent tear staining. Do your best, but perfection is not expected.

The golden rule: All of these rituals are about familiarity and positive association. If he's resistant, simply move on. A good experience matters far more than a completed checklist.
Health & Medications
Daily Supplement

Every morning give Mimoso one NaturVet Bladder Support Plus Cranberry soft chew. This supports his urinary health especially when his routine is disrupted — like when Sam is away.

Monthly Parasite Prevention

Mimoso takes NexGard Plus once a month. If it comes due while you're caring for him, go ahead and give it — he took it happily last time and should eat it like a cookie. If he's not interested, put a little Kong cheese whiz on it.

What to Watch For

Mimoso may experience loose stool or diarrhea if he's stressed or out of his routine. Keep an eye on it and reach out to Sam if anything seems off. If he has persistent diarrhea, Sam can advise on a temporary chicken and rice diet and will provide guidance or send some frozen. His snood (ear cover) will come into play during a chicken and rice diet to keep his floppy ears clean while eating.

⚠️ If something seems really wrong, don't wait. Trust your gut and go straight to an emergency vet — call Sam on the way.
Emergency Contacts
Step 1 — Always first
Sam Grise
Step 2 — If Sam is unreachable
Alex
Step 2 — If Sam is unreachable
Kathy
Regular Vet
Petit Brook Veterinary Clinic
5866 Roosevelt Highway, Colchester, VT
802-878-3713
Emergency Vet (shorter wait times)
VEG Burlington
225 Dorset St, Suite A, South Burlington, VT
802-523-2755
Emergency Vet
BEVS
1417 Marshall Ave, Williston, VT
802-863-2387
💡 Quick tip: When calling ahead to an emergency vet, let them know: he's a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, approximately 9 lbs (see landing page for latest), born January 23, 2026, and describe his current symptoms.
Grooming Rules

These are non-negotiable. Please do not make exceptions, even with good intentions.

1. Never cut his hair — anywhere

The breed standard for Cavalier King Charles Spaniels is a completely natural, uncut coat. No trimming, no tidying, no "just a little off the paws." If it seems long or messy, that's correct. Leave it.

2. Never cut his weewee tassel

The little tuft of hair at the end of his penis serves an important purpose — it directs the flow of urine so it doesn't run down his legs. It may look untidy but it is doing its job. It takes a very long time to grow back. Please leave it completely alone.

When in doubt, hands off and contact Sam.
Interacting with Other Pets

Mimoso loves absolutely everything and everyone — which means it's your job to keep him safe, because he certainly won't do it himself.

Other Dogs on Walks or in Public

Do not assume other dogs are friendly just because Mimoso is. If you can't confidently read a dog's body language, err on the side of not allowing a greeting. A polite decline is always the right call. He is fully vaccinated and cleared for dog-to-dog contact, but that doesn't mean every interaction is a safe one.

If another dog is off leash, the owner isn't listening, or a situation feels like it could escalate — simply pick Mimoso up and carry him away. Keep it calm, neutral, and low key. The goal is to keep him safe without making a big dramatic moment out of it. We don't want him developing anxiety or wariness around other dogs.

🚫 No dog parks. They are unpredictable environments and not a safe space for a small, friendly dog who has no sense of his own vulnerability.
Cats

Mimoso is used to cats but is still learning boundaries and how to play nicely. You can allow a greeting but keep an eye on the interaction. A reasonable hiss or swat from a cat is normal and helpful — it's how cats set boundaries. However, if the cat is being too intense, escalating, or really using their nails, step in and remove Mimoso from the situation. We don't want him getting hurt or scared.

He Has Zero Self-Preservation Skills

Mimoso will love first and ask questions never. Your job is to be the one asking the questions. Keep things calm, safe, and positive — for everyone involved.

🧳 Mimoso's Packing List

This is an estimate of what Sam typically sends with Mimoso — not a guaranteed list. Items may vary by stay. Use this as a guide for what to expect and what each item is for.

Food & Feeding
  • Purina Pro Plan Puppy — his kibble, pre-portioned for the stay (approx. ¾ cup per day)
  • NaturVet Bladder Support soft chews — one per morning to support urinary health while his routine is disrupted
  • Filtered water — helps prevent staining around his mouth; please use this instead of tap
  • Spaniel bowl — specially shaped to keep his floppy ears out of his water while he drinks
  • Puzzle feeder & snuffle mat — for enrichment feeding; his meals are more fun when he works for them
  • Kong cheese whiz (can) — a squeezable cheese used as a high value treat for recall, spread on his lick mat, or to make medication more appealing
  • Lick mat — great for settling him down; fill with cheese whiz using a spatula
Treats & Enrichment
  • Bully sticks + Woof tool — the Woof tool holds the bully stick safely so he can't swallow small pieces; great for lap time and pen time
  • Gummy/rubber toys — teething toys including his little shark; redirect him to these if he chews on you or your clothes
  • Training treats — small treats for practicing come and other commands
Sleep & Comfort
  • Crate + divider + cover — his den; divider keeps the space small to reduce accidents, cover breaks his sight lines
  • Nest bed (x2) — cozy crate bedding; a spare is included in case one needs washing
  • Cuddle puppy — heartbeat toy; Velcro on the tummy to access the device, press once to activate; place at the front of the crate as his pillow
Outdoors & Safety
  • Harness — always use this for leash attachment; never his collar
  • Collar — holds his ID tag, bell, and AirTag; the bell helps you hear him coming so you don't step on him; remove at bedtime, put back on for outdoors
  • Leash — for all potty breaks unless in a securely fenced yard
  • Tick remover — in case of tick encounter; avoid long grass and brush
  • Raincoat — he doesn't love it, but it's there if needed; an umbrella is usually more effective
  • Teddy bear coat — for cold weather; use at 50°F and below
  • Console car seat — for drives; he loves riding in it and it keeps him safe
  • Hard shell carrier — for when he needs to be briefly in the car alone
Grooming & Hygiene
  • Comb/brush — for his pre-bed groom; focus on ears and behind ears
  • Paw balm — rub into his pads before bed to keep them soft
  • Enzymatic toothpaste + toothbrush — he loves this; pea-sized amount, let him chew the brush
  • Baby wipes — for wiping him down after a pee accident or muddy walk
  • Tissues/soft cloth — for wiping under his eyes throughout the day to prevent tear staining
  • Snood (if needed) — ear cover for messy eating; only relevant if on a chicken & rice diet
Health & Cleaning
  • NexGard Plus (if needed) — only included if it comes due during the stay; monthly parasite prevention; he'll eat it like a cookie
  • Nature's Miracle — for cleaning up accidents; spray, wait, wipe
  • Chicken & rice (frozen, if needed) — for persistent diarrhea; Sam will advise via text if this becomes necessary
Thank You 🤍
Snuggly baby Mimoso

From the bottom of my heart — thank you. Truly. Leaving Mimoso is never easy, and knowing he's in the hands of someone I love and trust makes all the difference in the world. He is my whole heart in a tiny fluffy body, and the fact that you've read this guide, that you care enough to do right by him — that means everything to me.

He will shower you with love, curl up on your lap like he's always belonged there, and probably steal your heart a little. Let him. He's very good at it.

Thank you for taking care of my baby. I appreciate it more than words can say. He will love you for it — and so will I. 🤍
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